Marriage and parenthood are highly demanding skills among the few that there are no qualifications, and for which no previous experience is necessary, and for which people just assume they're doing well, making much of it as going on .
Sounds like the government.
No knowledge is required. Okay, take a marriage license meaningless piece of paper bureaucracy, paying a small fee. But no one asks, "Are you an idiot?"
"You have an income?"
You are not required to pass a test, how do I obtain a driving license.
For example, a multiple choice test like this:
1. If your wife overcooked pasta, right?
A. beat her.
B. Yell
C. Say, "eat."
D. All of the above.
No evidence is required that. Is it any wonder so many marriages fail? You do not know what the hell you are doing. Probably married in the first place because you want what you thought would be some constant, great sex. But sex alone is not going forward, and when the children appear ...?
In a one-child family, there is a real possibility that you'll be spoiled child and the child has one parent against the other. If that child is a girl, she could become girlfriend and father to challenge the mother.
If your child is a boy, could become a mama's boy and compete for the attention of the mother against the father, the famous Oedipus complex.
The father could be exiled from the care of his wife while she dotes on the boy, or vice versa.
There are millions of combinations.
Since marriage and parenthood can have a profound impact on not only your life, but up to eight others (if you want more children Than you this already crazy), do something similar.
Let's fly a spaceship with no knowledge of the equipment. It 'a disaster waiting to happen.
Okay, call me negativity, a pessimist. But before we do, how many marriages last? There are a few.
Okay! Here's something that nobody, no marriage counselor, no priest ever speaks .... EVOLUTION. Your new spouse will not be the person in twenty years that he or she is today. I'm not the same person today I was in 1980.
NO .... I say no one ever ... .. sits down and tells the other person what they expect from this person from the get-go.
And if so, how do you know what they want in twenty years?
Couples grow apart, because they change. The dinosaurs could not adapt to changing conditions. You can?
Whatever attractions (mostly physical, sometimes money, usually no heart or character) which brought together, will withstand decades of hits, family deaths, the failure of his career, alienation, overwork, abuse of substances, health problems, and petty irritations that only grow with time.
Your husband scratching his balls, and that crazy, but you do not know when she married him.
Do not try to speak for women, but I would warn you guys. At this time, your new husband thinks you're a sexy Venus. Can not bear to be away from you. But after a couple had children, stop being the bad guy, fox sexy drove him wild. You will be the mother of his children.
He'll elevate to sainthood.
Who wants to have sex with a saint?
This disease has killed the sex drive of many men, including Elvis Presley.
It is said that the killer sex holiness particularly affect people who attended the birth of their child.
I liken marriage to a joint exercise in common between two people, full of hope. About the same percentage of new marriages fail. Failed firms were hired to run out of money and without adequate knowledge of the market.
The marriage failed because no one can look at the warts on the person.
"Yes, he is a selfish asshole, but it certainly is beautiful."
In twenty years, will probably be less beautiful, but perhaps no less shooting.
KNOW who you're married!
I finish with sage advice of an old lady.
"I love 'em and you hate' em, but I love you more 'em more than you hate' em."
That said, I wish you a happy marriage.
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